Tag Archives: People

Relationship Skills for Couples

Relationship Skills for Couples Coaching, Part 1. When couples come to me for coaching, there are several basic tools I find indispensable with regard to creating an expectation of success in the relationship.  By the time people come for coaching, the situation is that one or both parties have crossed some threshold.  In other words,…Read More

Getting to the Real Issue

Getting to the Real Issue I want to address the pattern for ‘Getting to the Real Issue’ inside a few different contexts.  You’ll find this simple skill-set an invaluable tool to have in your toolbox and it can save hours you might otherwise spend talking people through their presenting problems and complaints.  It requires listening…Read More

3 Keys to Success

3 Keys to Success One of the reasons for the extremely high success rate of NLP processes is that it starts with finding high quality information about what it is that a person wants.  People often know what they don’t want, but they typically don’t have a clearly defined idea of what it is specifically that…Read More

Why People Don’t Forgive

Why People Don’t Forgive In my NLP Coaching practice, I sometimes have client for whom forgiveness must be resolved before any significant results are possible.  Without intervention, some people will live a lifetime with the ongoing emotional burden of resentment because they do not and/or cannot forgive. It is my experience that forgiveness happens in…Read More