Tag Archives: Pace

Relationship Skills for Couples

Relationship Skills for Couples Coaching, Part 1. When couples come to me for coaching, there are several basic tools I find indispensable with regard to creating an expectation of success in the relationship.  By the time people come for coaching, the situation is that one or both parties have crossed some threshold.  In other words,…Read More

The Change Anger Pattern

The Change Anger Pattern An NLP Life-Change Pattern Note: This pattern is utilized Richard Bandler’s idea that the feelings around an issue tend to have movement. You will want to notice when you are in the emotion whether the feelings are spinning up and over, down and back the opposite direction, or right to left,…Read More

Big Toe Anxiety Eliminator

Here’s the other process for anxiety. I got this from Genie LaBorde. She wrote the book, Influencing with Integrity. I sort of remember this process from years ago, but I did not remember the application. Genie says it is very effective. I’d use all these processes/patterns together if there is time/opportunity with the client. Check…Read More