Tag Archives: Coach

Relationship Skills for Couples

Relationship Skills for Couples Coaching, Part 1. When couples come to me for coaching, there are several basic tools I find indispensable with regard to creating an expectation of success in the relationship.  By the time people come for coaching, the situation is that one or both parties have crossed some threshold.  In other words,…Read More

Are you sure?

Are You Sure? – An NLP Language Pattern (article) Have you encountered someone who was so sure they were right that there was just very little opening for suggesting any new solutions? Maybe you have been in a conversation where the more you make your point the more the person digs in and won’t consider…Read More

Values Conflicts

Values are described as those things that we will expend time, energy and effort to either move toward or away from in life. A primary skill from my NLP Practitioner Certification program is learning how to elicit values. Values are elicited anytime you ask the question, “What is important about ‘X’?” I often say the…Read More