…the whole coaching protocol that I’ve been calling Heartistic Transformation©. Occasionally I have a client who says “I’ve never experienced the kind of ‘Total Love’ that you are asking me to infuse into every part of my life?”…if anyone produces an excellent behavior, like looking at you through loving eyes; the behavior can be modeled. Just because my client doesn’t immediately relate to knowing that they are capable of loving in this way or gets confused trying to decide if they are doing it right, doesn’t mean that you can’t elicit a clear example of someone loving them.
What is Heartistic Transformation©? It rhymes with ‘artistic.’ It must be about ‘heart’; as in ‘heart-based,’ or having to do with matters of ‘the heart’ more than ‘the head.’ ‘Heartistic’ might then be based more upon how something feels. We tend to say, right action is ‘heart felt’ and ‘sounds right’ in our common language. …Read More
Presuppositions in NLP NLP Practitioners use the word ‘presupposition’ in two ways. One way refers to the belief systems of highly successful people in any area of life and the other is specific to language patterns and how language can be used to implant thoughts and images and that can lead to specific actions. Presuppositions…Read More
We all play games. The kinds of games we play with each other can be fun and positive in nature or they can be ‘toxic.’ If you can begin to think of difficult relationships as games you are involved in, you can take unresourceful events in a more positive way and you’ll be able to get some freedom in how you respond the toxic behaviors that are often acted out.